We all know that we should be thankful for the important things in life (family, friends, health, memories, etc.), but – especially with the last few years have been and the holidays around the corner – how often do we feel satisfied with what we have right now? Do we ever get enough out of life to the point where we feel truly content? Some people are constantly (sometimes blindly) wanting more when it may ultimately be better for these people to give rather than to receive.
Now I’m not saying you shouldn’t work harder and/or smarter for what you really want in life (it’s important to have a purpose to get out of bed in the morning; accomplishments – no matter the size – are definitely important), but – if it’s only material possessions that you value – you’re probably going to live a shorter life compared to those who value people/experiences over “things”. I know – hard to believe that a financial advisor (remember - I am a fiduciary) would tell you such crazy (honest) things!
Here’s the point: instead of worrying if you have enough, think about people who don’t have enough (especially this year) and find a way to help do something that’ll bring a smile to a needy person’s face. After the way the last few years have gone, it should make you think about how lucky you are to have the important people in your life. It should also make you reflect on what you can do to help your fellow human beings. After all, we’d sure want someone to be kind to us if we were in dire need of help.
If you’re doing well for yourself (you’re fortunate), treat others as you’d like to be treated. Decide to give your time, valuables, money, etc., to those in need. If you didn’t think it was important to do in the past, that’s okay…decide to turn over a new leaf this holiday season. Volunteer, donate, help make someone’s day, help someone who’s out of work, help a small business owner who’s probably fighting just to make ends meet – chances are that person you helped will be sincerely appreciative and thank you (if not, shrug it off and cut that person some slack; this has been a difficult few years). Is there truly any better feeling than that? You’re welcome!
Find an experienced financial advisor who lets clients know it’s important to give back, works for an RIA firm, earns his/her money from fees (NOT commissions), believes in having an abundance of investment choices for clients, and has the heart & demeanor of a teacher, NOT a salesman, and chances are you’ve found the right financial advisor to help you prepare and plan for your financial goals.
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